I used to laugh when my parents would tell me that some day I would miss Wichita or someday I would want to live closer to home. The moment I graduated from KU I could not wait to explore the world on my own, and I did. I have met interesting people and lived in different places. I had become what I had always wanted to be "independent."
Looking back it seems hard to believe that I was that same girl. As I drove into Wichita Wednesday afternoon you would have thought I was about to reach Hawaii or my favorite store Nordstrom's. The pure excitement and familiarity ensued and it felt so good to be home.
I stayed with my mom and stepdad the first three days. My mom and I spent Friday together shopping and eating at our favorite restaurant Il Vicino. It was such a great day. Later that night we went to dinner and played Mad Gab with my little brother and stepdad.
Saturday morning I ate breakfast and then headed over to my dads house. The first thinng my dad says every time I see him is "hi Rachie." I used to find it annoying, however now, it is somewhat endearing.
The time at my dad's house was great. I stayed up and watched Goonies with Grace all the while trying to remember what it was like to be 13 years old...seems like so long ago. The next day my family swam, including our dog Missy.
Throughout the trip I also got a chance to catch up with old high school friends. It was so fun to see what God has done in their lives and the wonderful women they have become.
I left Tuesday morning to head back to Texas. As I drove down the long gravel road over looking the lake at my dad's house, tears streamed down my face. Not tears of sadness, but tears of longing to be closer to home. It's amazing how your thoughts and feelings can change when you begin a family of your own. I had always envisioned my parents spending a great deal of time with their grand kids. And by living two states away I feel somehow that I am robbing my parents of this. Maybe, if it's God's will, we will one day live closer to my family.
As I converse with my parents it is apparent to me that they are no longer the 35 year olds that I had always viewed them as. They are getting older, and now more than ever I am yearning to spend time with them and to let them know how much they mean to me. I used to feel sorry for myself that my parents had divorced, however, looking at the situation now, I have more people to love and to love me and my new family.
If you haven't done so recently tell your parents you love them and how much they mean to you. Some of this emotion is partially due to being pregnant, the other is part of growing up and realizing what is truly important, and that is relationships. Relationships with God, your family, and those you love. I never want to look back and wish I had told someone how much they meant to me, however in some cases words are not enough and I need to start showing as well as telling.
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Half Way There...
This week marks the 20th preggers week! Things are going good. I am leaving for Wichita this week to visit my family and friends-cannot wait!
Luke update: Moving around all the time
Mommy update: Still tired at times, shortness of breath...otherwise doing great!
Daddy update: still excited to have a little boy ;)
Here is a picture of me a little over 20 weeks along...YES there is a definite bump! :)
Sunday, July 11, 2010
Kicks and Flutters
Updates and Such
Baby Name: Luke Turner Woods
Baby News: Luke has been moving like crazy and kicking a great deal, especially after I eat
Mommy Updates: I am feeling good, just tired sometimes. I am not on a regular sleep pattern which is causing me to be tired more often. I think I am like a newborn...I need a schedule and I need naps ;)
Cravings: baked potatoes, frozen yogurt, pizza, and fruit
Daddy Updates: Rob is so excited! He has already been devising future camping trips in his head. ;)
Things coming up-I am headed to Wichita the July 21-27 and cannot wait to see some of my bestest high school friends!!!! I also can't wait to see my family. Might I add Luke is going to have the most fabuolous grandparents! He is going to be one spoiled boy. ;) My mom and I are also going to Baby Waves to have 3d sonogram pics/video taken and I can't wait!
The day after I return from Wichita we leave for Playa del Carmen. A little nervous-my physician game me a list of things not to eat or drink. We are staying at a five star all inclusive resort so I am hoping the food will be fine...I am going to be envious of all of the people on the beach with a fun drink in their hand ;) Looks like it's going to be a Shirley Temple kinda week! :)
Baby Name: Luke Turner Woods
Baby News: Luke has been moving like crazy and kicking a great deal, especially after I eat
Mommy Updates: I am feeling good, just tired sometimes. I am not on a regular sleep pattern which is causing me to be tired more often. I think I am like a newborn...I need a schedule and I need naps ;)
Cravings: baked potatoes, frozen yogurt, pizza, and fruit
Daddy Updates: Rob is so excited! He has already been devising future camping trips in his head. ;)
Things coming up-I am headed to Wichita the July 21-27 and cannot wait to see some of my bestest high school friends!!!! I also can't wait to see my family. Might I add Luke is going to have the most fabuolous grandparents! He is going to be one spoiled boy. ;) My mom and I are also going to Baby Waves to have 3d sonogram pics/video taken and I can't wait!
The day after I return from Wichita we leave for Playa del Carmen. A little nervous-my physician game me a list of things not to eat or drink. We are staying at a five star all inclusive resort so I am hoping the food will be fine...I am going to be envious of all of the people on the beach with a fun drink in their hand ;) Looks like it's going to be a Shirley Temple kinda week! :)
Friday, July 9, 2010
Productivity and Progress
In the last three days I have ordered the nursery furniture, ordered bedding, hired painters and set-up my registry! Wish I could be this driven to clean the house. ;) I really just want to get things done before August, because I know once school starts the baby stuff will be put on the back burner.
If you or anyone you know is looking for reasonable custom bedding, check out http://www.etsy.com/. For those of you unfamiliar with Etsy, it is equivalent to an on-line craft show. Everything on the site is custom/hand made. They have anything from dishes, to furniture, to candles. I found a woman named Melissa who has a shop on Etsy and she has hundreds of fabrics to choose from. Above are the fabrics I chose. I am going with blue paisley, white with baby blue polka dots, blue and white stripes, as well as a soft baby blue chenille fabric. If you want more info about where I ordered the bedding from I will give you here contact info. Compared to all of the other custom bedding places/sites I found, she is 1/5 of the price!
Tuesday, July 6, 2010
Boy oh Boy!
So excited that we are having a boy! I lost the bet...I was certain it was a girl. It was really amazing seeing the sonogram. Still so surreal that the baby is in my belly! The sonogram took almost two hours because he would not stay still and they couldn't get any accurate measurements...hope this isn't foreshadowing of what's to come. ;) Truly though, I really feel blessed. I can't wait to meet him!
Now the fun begins! After the sonogram Rob and I grabbed dinner and headed to The Galleria. We went to Baby Gap and The Children's Place. We picked out a few things...it was on sale so I had to get it! :)
I think we have a name...for now-Luke Turner Woods
I have painters coming next week...any suggestions? We have a chair rail in the room separating it in half-I was thinking navy on bottom and the ever popular baby blue on top. I am open to suggestions though!
Now the fun begins! After the sonogram Rob and I grabbed dinner and headed to The Galleria. We went to Baby Gap and The Children's Place. We picked out a few things...it was on sale so I had to get it! :)
I think we have a name...for now-Luke Turner Woods
I have painters coming next week...any suggestions? We have a chair rail in the room separating it in half-I was thinking navy on bottom and the ever popular baby blue on top. I am open to suggestions though!
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